- 1. Investing Is Why People Are Rich
- 2. Credit Cards Are a Godsend
- 3. Debt is The Devil
- 4. BANKS are the Devil
- 5. Mint Is Mint
- 6. I don't Need Everything
- 7. Staying Home is Okay
- 8. Education is Key (Books, not College)
- 9. Don't Be Afraid to Ask For Money
- 10. Job Security is a Myth (except for teachers)
- 11. Owning a Home is Not For Everyone
- 12. Build an Emergency Fund for Peace of Mind
- 13. Junk Mail is Junk
- 14. Bad Habits are Killing You...Literally
- 15. Choose Your Friends Wisely
- 16. Do What Makes You Happy
- 17. Hobbies are Important
- 18. You are your own worst enemy
I’ve spent the past 30 years of my life being broke. Sure, I’ve had money, but I wasted it all then asking myself why I have no money. I went from a single bachelor with his own home and a BMW, to a single bachelor living with his brother and a Honda Civic, and I couldn’t be happier.
I learned a lot over the last three decades, and I’m now a part of the personal finance world, which if you told me ten years ago, I would have laughed in your face. I was too absorbed in the “I have no money” lifestyle to see the bigger picture.
I’d like to share 18 lessons I’ve learned over the years of living paycheck to paycheck:
1. Investing Is Why People Are Rich
I don’t invest, but I know a lot of people who do, and they all have more money than me…a lot more money than me.
I tried my hand at investing. I bought stock in Sirius before Howard Stern joined — lost a shitload. I bought stock in Pandora — lost there too. I bought stock in Move Inc. — yep, you guessed it, LOST! I’ve had bad luck buying individual stocks.
I’ve since learned that if you want to invest to make a quick buck, that’s kinda stupid. You should invest for the long-term and keep investing. You can start by setting up a 401K with your employer. After that, just go into something simple, automated and easy like Betterment. Andrew wrote a pretty awesome article on his experience using it with his own money – The Betterment Experiment.
NOTE: Don’t withdraw all your money from your 401k account just because -your broke. Yep, I made that mistake too.
You can also make it simple for yourself and start a Roth IRA if your employer doesn’t offer a 401k package. Invest in index funds or lifecycle funds. These are bundles of stocks instead of individuals stocks. No knowledge needed. You just have to start TODAY! Remember, every day that goes by without investing is another day you’re not building wealth.
2. Credit Cards Are a Godsend
If you’d known me years ago, I would have been up to my ears in credit card debt. When I was 18 years old, and my first credit card offer came in the mail, I jumped for joy. I thought to myself, “free money!” Yes, the looming glow of a $500 credit limit was attractive, and I spent all of it on motorized water fountains for my desk…and probably Pez dispensers.
I never took advantage of credit card points, and I found myself in a seemingly never-ending battle with credit card debt.
I’ve since learned that credit cards are helpful if you use them correctly. Instead of racking up thousands in debt, I’ve paid them all off and only kept one that I use for every single purchase I make. It allows me to rack up points and pay the card off every month. With cash back points, I can now talk about, “free money,” and not sound like a freaking idiot.
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3. Debt is The Devil
As I mentioned, I was in a lot of debt: credit cards, mortgage, car payments, etc. I spent everything any one would give me, and I was good at it.
Unfortunately, that lead to a shit-ton of stress that piled on more stress from everyday life. This is a terrible way to live.
Fortunately, I spent a full year focused on paying off that debt. I’m still not finished because I still have a car and a mortgage, but my credit card debt is gone, and I can’t stress enough how good that feels.
If you’re currently in any sort of debt, I suggest you sign up to download our 10 day guide to getting out of debt at the bottom of this post.
NOTE: I don’t have any student loans because college wasn’t for me, so I can’t imagine having that debt weighing you down. However, if I did, I would do everything in my power to pay it off as quick as possible. Perhaps a second job, even though I know that’s not what you want to hear.
4. BANKS are the Devil
I had a checking account when I was 15 years old. I have switched to over five different banks in my lifetime, and every one was a nightmare.
My first bank was fine, but they were small and very inconvenient. I had a relationship with my second bank for over ten years, but they treated me like garbage because I didn’t know how to manage my money. I paid so much in overdraft fees that it made me sick, and I paid hundreds to just have an account with them.
I moved over to ING Electric Checking, and not to go into too much detail, but I am no longer allowed to bank with them. I’ve been blacklisted.
The most recent bank began charging me a monthly fee to have an account because I’m no longer employed (like a normal person?), but instead work for myself. So now I’m switching to my fifth bank which claims they have no fees.
I urge you never to pay bank fees and avoid them at all costs. In fact, we recently recorded a podcast episode all about that topic.
The only smart savings account I own is Digit. It’s automated and adjusts to me because I’ll be damned if I need to revolve my life around a savings account.
5. Mint Is Mint
When I started as a reader of this very blog, Andrew reached out and forced me to start a Mint.com account, and it’s good thing I did. I spent the time plugging in all my account information and debts. I soon had a 50,000-foot overview of my entire financial profile, and it made me sick.
However, having that view at your fingertips helps you to make smart decisions about where your money goes. It allowed me to plug spending leaks and pay off my debt faster. Just the simple act of checking my Mint account every day was a reminder that I had to get in shape — like being naked in front of mirror while standing on a scale.
Start using Mint, I urge you! In fact, we just launched our book Mastering Mint which is all about using Mint effectively. Check it out, it’s be EPIC!
6. I don’t Need Everything
I was an impulse buyer. If I wanted to new laptop, I’d go out and buy a new laptop. I never saved for anything in my life. I would just slap it on a credit card and pay it off later — or so I thought.
I bought a king-sized bed — didn’t need it. I bought a BMW — definitely didn’t need it. I bought a condo — absolutely didn’t need it. I didn’t need anything!
Buying stuff doesn’t make you happy, it’s what you do with it that does. I slept alone in my bed. I drove to my boring job in my BMW, and I’m now in a crazy amount of debt because of my condo.
Take stock in the things you already have. You probably have enough right now to be happy. If not, find out the things that truly make you happy.
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7. Staying Home is Okay
I bought a very expensive condo, so I thought, I better use it. I stayed home a lot, and you know what? It wasn’t that bad. I saved a ton of money by staying home and chilling out with my dog, Reggie. I didn’t miss out on much.
Instead of going out to dinner, I made my own EPIC dinners. If I was lucky, I had someone to eat it with.
Instead of going out to drink more beer than I should, I would invite friends over with beer and THEN drink more than I should. Safer too!
8. Education is Key (Books, not College)
In the beginning of 2013, I decided to become better with my money, and so I read a bunch of books about the subject, including The Simple Dollar and I Will Teach You To Be Rich. Both of these books (and this blog) have seriously changed my life for the better. I no longer stress about money and think about wealth in a whole new light — none of which I learned from my years of “forced” education.
You don’t need to enroll in a University and take a course on becoming CPA to be rich. Heck, you don’t need an education at all to be rich (it’s my life goal to prove that). All you need is willpower.
You need to make the decision yourself that you’re ready to be rich. Don’t be the guy who plays the lottery and expects luck and the gods to choose you, they won’t. Instead, man-up (or woman-up) and read a book…and this blog – we’ll stop you from being broke :-)
9. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask For Money
I’d be the guy who would work for free and never ask for payment because I was embarrassed.
Here’s what you need to remember: money makes the world go round and everyone knows it. No one will be offended if you ask for money after doing something for it. I’m not saying you should stand out on the street and beg for change, but if you ever find yourself in that situation — and I truly hope that you never do — you need to earn the money you’re asking for.
If you feel you’re being underpaid at work, ask for a raise. Trust me, your boss won’t give you a raise if he or she doesn’t have to — no matter how great your work is. You have to ASK, and ask often. If you don’t get it, ask someone else who is more willing, even if that means switching jobs, which leads me to my next lesson…
10. Job Security is a Myth (except for teachers)
I need to get this tidbit out of the way: I have a small hatred for teachers. There were only one or two teachers I can recall that really helped me in a significant way. In fact, every single English teacher I’ve ever had (except Mrs. Beidka) failed me. It’s the reason I spent only three weeks in college too — apparently, I was too creative?
Tenure doesn’t exist for the rest of us. We don’t get locked into our jobs after four years of just doing it well enough not to get fired. And even if you are the greatest employee the company has ever seen, a small budget cut can send you packing, and last in line at the unemployment office — I should know.
Therefore, you need to think about your life as a whole and where you want to be. If you’re not where you want to be, move on. Keep moving, it’s perfectly okay. Don’t fall into the trap of being comfortable and scared, or that it will look bad on your resume (that’s complete bullshit!).
Live your work life as if every day is your last — because it actually might be.
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11. Owning a Home is Not For Everyone
If you’re married with kids, it might be worth buying a home if you plan on living in it for 30 years, and you really like the area. Otherwise, owning a home might not be the best move for you. I know it wasn’t for me.
I’m a single bachelor who needs flexibility, and owning a home has been nothing but a headache and burden for the last five years. I’m not saying it will happen to you, but be aware of some of the facts about homeownership before you settle in:
- You need to fix things when they are broken.
- You need to do yard work if you own a single family.
- You need to pay property taxes.
- You need to sell it at some point (maybe).
These might not seem like bad things, but for me, they were, so just be cautious of them. There is nothing wrong with renting. Right now, I rent and I love it. Very little responsibility and I can move whenever I want without having to deal with the devil banks.
12. Build an Emergency Fund for Peace of Mind
I followed the philosophy of: I could get hit by a bus tomorrow, so what do I need to save for? What a bad philosophy.
I spent 30 years without a backup or cushion to help get me out of a jam. Car breaks, put it on the credit card. Went over on my cell phone minutes, put it on the credit card. Not good, friends. Not good.
I now have an emergency fund with about $2,000 in that that I never EVER touch. It’s the “just in case” fund. Having it will relieve stress in your life, even if you never have to use it.
13. Junk Mail is Junk
I would subscribe and signup for every offer that came in the mail. I would hold on to coupons in case I need to buy something that I didn’t need in the first place. All of these things are worthless! If you want a credit card or a coupon, you’ll find it when you need it.
Also, you should NEVER take a offer from a credit card company that comes randomly in the mail. You should do your research and find the card that will work best for your situation and provides the best rewards.
The best advice would be to continually cancel junk mail like I did. You won’t miss it, I promise.
14. Bad Habits are Killing You…Literally
I used to be a smoker and a heavy drinker. Guess what? That’s not gonna help you with your financial situation at all. In fact, smoking costs a ridiculous amount of money (about $2,000 a year), not to mention the healthcare costs you’ll need later in life.
Drinking is the same. Even though I love my beer, I have cut back.
Cutting back on beer has helped me to lose weight, which will save you money — and I don’t get crazy hangovers all the time. Also, drinking costs more than smoking if you’re doing it a lot.
15. Choose Your Friends Wisely
It’s been said that “you are the product of the 5 people you spend your time with,” and I take this to heart.
You need to make a list of your friends and put them into two categories: toxic and non-toxic (do yourself a favor and don’t tell people you’re doing this).
You’ll learn that some of the people you hang out with are not worth spending your time with anymore. Maybe every time you hang out with them, you come home feeling like shit (whether emotionally or because you’re forced to drink). Perhaps all your friends do is spend money on frivolous crap, and now you find yourself doing the same things. Stop it!
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16. Do What Makes You Happy
I’m going to ask that you make a list of the things that make you happy. Not a mental list, but an actual list with a pen and a piece of paper. Write down things in life that you love and that don’t costs any money.
For instance, you could write: walking the dog, drinking coffee, or laughing. You can do these things if you have no money, and you’ll know they’ll make you happy. If you continue to do the things you love, everything else won’t seem as important, like a BMW.
17. Hobbies are Important
I know some people who don’t have any hobbies, and when I ask them what they do to occupy their time, it’s usually TV. While I’ll admit that there’s nothing wrong with TV, I’d be mad at myself if I didn’t mention that I think it’s the dumbest thing you can do with your time — especially if you’re watching Here Comes Honey Boo Boo or Duck Dynasty.
Hobbies not only help your mind, but they will make you happy, and perhaps, save you money at the same time. Exercising, snowboarding, homebrewing, writing, or any activity that engages your mind is a better use of your time.
Dig deep into yourself and choose a hobby that you think will benefit to you and make you smarter. I started brewing beer, and it provides me cheap great-tasting beer and wealth of math knowledge.
18. You are your own worst enemy
The only thing that’s holding you back from being wealthy is you. It’s not the government or where you live, it’s you. You need to quit blaming others (I know I have). I took it upon myself to be happy and wealthy, and so far I’m achieving that with the lessons I’ve learned over the years.
I hate to say that it took me almost half a lifetime to learn (I think I’m old), but I’m glad I finally did.
These are just the lessons I’ve learned, so I hope you can share some of the one’s you’ve learned, whether you are broke or not. Please share in the comments below and let’s turn some things around for each other.
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