Do you love buying all the things? You might have a problem. We all love buying stuff but it can become a real problem. Let’s tackle it together.
“It’s ok, I deserve it.” Is that something you find yourself saying a lot? Whether or not you deserve it is not the question. I’m sure you do, you work hard, take care of a family. Of course you deserve it! But can you afford it? That’s the question that needs to be answered.
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Shopping becomes a habit. It’s a way to entertain yourself, to reward yourself, to blow off stress. If spending money has become these things to you, it’s time to break the habit before you are crushed under a pile of your own debt (and detritus).
The first step is to set up a budget. Use a spread sheet, use YNAB, use Mint, use the back of an envelope, anything. Just start tracking where your money is going. Even if this doesn’t make you stop what you’re doing, at least at first, this gives you vital information. Where is your money going?
If this behavior is sinking you, you need to make a shift. Now that you know where you’re spending, examine it. Does what you’re spending on make you happy, improve your life? Or is it keeping you up at night, trapping you in a job you hate?
Matt had a bad breakup and got layed off. He took the opportunity to go all in on starting his own business. In order to survive, he had to cut all spending to only the essentials. No more filling the voids with cars and houses, and stuff. If he was going to make this work, there could be no more of that kind of gap filling spending. His only priority now was making this business work.
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So how can you tackle this without getting dumped and fired? Make a list of all the things that make you happy that cannot be purchased. A run in the park, a walk on the beach, time with friends, walking your puppy (I’d like a puppy please). Next time you want to blow off steam or you’re bored, do one of the things on your list instead. Eventually you will begin to associate these behaviors rather than shopping, with entertainment or stress relief, or whatever feeling you were trying to achieve by shopping.
It’s easier to replace a habit than to break a habit. By replacing the destructive habit with a positive behavior, your life with improve and so will your fiances.
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Mint: Budgeting software.